Avoidance doesn’t always mean you don’t want something.
Sometimes it means you care so much that you’re afraid of getting it wrong.
You might be thinking:
“What if nobody wants it?”
“What if I waste my money?”
“What if I’m not ready?”
“What if I fail?”
Instead of judging yourself for avoiding something, get curious about it.
What are you actually afraid of?
What information would make you feel more prepared?
Who could help?
What could you test before making a big commitment?
You don’t need to eliminate the fear before you move.
Sometimes you just need to make the next step small enough that you’re willing to take it.